(Andy writing on Cath’s behalf).
It saddens me to tell you that yesterday we discovered that our little baby’s heart was no longer beating.
At this stage, it is unclear why this has happened, and it appears to be unrelated to Cath’s kidney condition that we have been concerned about in this pregnancy.
I think it is fair to say that we are pretty broken, as we have built up such hope and expectation in our little Juggernaut. But we are also confident that we are going to be OK.
Cath and I really appreciate the support we have received from all of you over the last few months. I know that you have all shared in our hope and expectations. Please be assured that (although we know that there is not much to be said) we appreciate hearing from you.
I’ve attached the best photo we have, from a few weeks ago.
Thanks,
Andy and Cath D.










I am so very sorry for your loss. Even though we only know each other online, I wish I was there to give you a hug. If you need anything let me know.
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Cath and Andy, my thoughts and good healing vibes are with you. You’re not alone, you are loved and held in our hearts xo Tia
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I am so incredibly saddened for you guys in this, and heartbroken for you. I hold you in my warmest thoughts tonight and through the coming days.
Oh, I’m so sad for you both. There really are no words, are there? Be kind to yourselves. Allow the pain, but don’t live there. Much aloha.
I’m truly upset to hear your news; I wish you the strength and love to get through the coming days and weeks. Go gently.
Dave
I have a huge lump in my throat at this heartbreaking news. I’m so so sorry for your loss. Love to you guys and to little Juggernaut. xx Jill
Just want to let you both know that I am thinking of you. I know you’ll take good care of each other as you get through this sad time.
Lots of love
Amy
xx
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Oh my heart goes out to both of you and tears are flowing.Sending you love and healing prayers that you find strength and solace at this painful time . Blessing to little Juggernaut and Big love and hugs to you
“Love is the beauty of the soul.” St. Augustine
Arabella xx
Dear Cath and Andy,
I am so, so sorry to hear this news. Take good care of yourselves and each other. I hold you and Juggernaut Duncan tightly in my heart.
With a tear,
Mark
So sorry to hear that Andy. My best love to you and Cath.
With care, Michelle
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Cath and Andy,
Sending hugs from Toronto.
Kel
Cath & Andy,
You’re in my thoughts. I am so sorry for your loss.
Thursday
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My heart goes out to you and hoping you are feeling the arms of love encircling you and your family from all of us ~
Mary Ellen
I’m so sorry, Andy & Cath.
Sending love, and keeping you in my thoughts.
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Cath and Andy:
My heart hurts for you. I love you both, wishing peace and love to surround you for however long it takes.
Love,
-Pam
I am so very sorry for your loss. Sending you wishes for peace, love, and comfort.
Words fail me. Sending good thoughts your say.
Cath & Andy-
I’m so so sorry.
Prayers + love + peace.
Thinking of all three of you.
I’m so sorry to hear the news. My heart goes out to both of you. Sending lots of love and best wishes your way.
Mike
Dear Cath and Andy,
I understand a little of what you are feeling. I’ve been through a similar situation when we learned our first child had anencephaly. After telling my wife’s family in person and then mine over the phone. We laid down on the bed and I cried for two hours straight.
Remember to reach out for any support you need and if there is anything I can do to help, please let me know.
Byron
Cath and Andy,
Know that Charlie and I are thinking of you both and sending so much love your way.
My love goes out to you both, and I am so sorry for your loss, a baby does inspire and provide so much hope. I hope that you are able to move through this time with the love and support that is right for you.xxxxx Diane
May you be happy, may you be healthy, may you be free from suffering. Sending love to you. Julie
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Dear Cath and Andy, I’m deeply sorry for your loss. I’m sending love and healing thoughts to you both. Kindest, Helen
My heart breaks for your loss. Sending loving thoughts your way.
I’m so sorry Cath & Andy. I wish you the inner strength and peace to bear your loss.
Peace, Love
Stay strong
Cath and Andy, so sorry to hear about what has happened, life can seem so unfair sometimes. Although we have never met I feel a connection with you, and I want you know how much I have valued the things you have said. You have helped me through some really tough times, and if there is anything I can do to help you now or in the future please just ask. Thinking of you with love and compassion. Andy
Oh guys, I am so devastated for you
I pray for you that the grief process might pass swiftly, and that you might somehow despite all be constantly aware of God’s presence in the midst of the horrendous pain. Love and compassion, G
I’m so sorry to hear about the baby. Know that my prayers are still with you.
Cath & Andy
We’re thinking of you ~ and sending love and healing vibes.
Lea xx
Love you, Cath and Andy. Sending love, light and if there is anything else you need, just say the word.
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I am so sorry.
I have had a miscarriage as well as many other people. It is tough and heartbreaking.
Here are two poems I wrote for my sister when she lost her baby in week 36.
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Sending you lots of hugs and wishes for a future full of happiness.
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My thoughts are with you both
Love
Gina
xxxx
I am so sorry to hear this news.
Cath and Andy,
I am thinking of you, sending much peace and love your way.
Catharina
Oh Dear Cath and Andy: I am in complete disbelief as I read this. I am so very saddened for your loss. We are keeping both of you in our thoughts.
Hugs to you both.
Jack, Aye and Emma
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Cath,
I’m just seeing this now – very belatedly. I’m so sorry to hear this, and my thoughts and prayers are with you and Andy.
Much love,
Tara